Welcome to our ever-expanding list of resources designed for trans and gender-nonconforming folx & those who love us most!
TGNC Speech and Voice Training - Daya Deuskar — Based in Princeton, NJ, transgender vocalist and activist Daya Mirabai Deuskar specializes in guiding both feminine and masculine trans voices through social and physiological transition. She works on a sliding scale and is available for lessons either in person or via Zoom. For more info, head to her website.
Strands for Trans — Online database of salons and barbershops that have adopted TGNC-affirming practices, such as gender-neutral pricing. If you're a business manager/owner and would like to get involved, connect with them via the form on their website.
Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt — Documents the life of transgender actress and activist Nicole Maines (Supergirl) and her family.
The Gender Creative Child by Diane Ehrensaft, Ph.D — Aimed at helping families understand gender non-conforming children and adolescents.
Redefining Realness — First memoir by writer, director, and trans advocate Janet Mock. Addresses her "path to womanhood, identity, love, & so much more."
Surpassing Certainty — Second memoir by Janet Mock. Addresses what she learned about life in her twenties.
New York City
The LGBT Community Center – Offers a variety of services and support groups for LGBTQ+ people, as well as adolescent-specific programming. Located on 13th st. between 7th and 8th avenues. I interned here for a bit and have several friends who work here, and I really admire how much thought and time goes into creating their programming. The Center was founded in the 1980s, so they have a long history of supporting the community.
Ali Forney Center – Services for homeless LGBTQ+ youth.
PCYP – LGBTQ+ - competent legal services for homeless youth. Call toll-free at 877-542-8529 or e-mail firstname.lastname@example.org
TransLifeline – Trans-specific suicide hotline for all ages. Call 877-565-8860 for support. *Note: If you look up this org, you may read some bad press detailing the arrest of two of their original founders for embezzling $350K from the org. The organization is in new hands, and I feel more confident in regards to its trajectory. Read the new founders’ comments here.
*If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency, please call 911.
Howard Brown Health — Offer affirming care for TGNC people, details outlined here. Address and contact info available on their site.
Brooklyn Center, MN
North Memorial Health — Erik Stanley Haugland, MD aims to serve patients who have felt intimidated in other healthcare settings. Dr. Haugland specializes in transgender healthcare and follows recommendations from the WPATH Standards of Care, which set the industry precedent for TGNC-affirming care. Address and contact info available on their site.
St. Paul, MN
Family Tree Clinic — Offer HRT as well as legal services for TGNC folx. Offer services on a sliding scale in order to make treatment accessible for low income individuals. Address and contact info available on their site.
New York, NY
Apicha - Community Health Center — Offers trans and HIV/AIDS-competent medical care and community health education in Lower Manhattan. Has its own pharmacy. Address and contact info is listed on their site.
Callen-Lorde - Community Health Center — Offers trans and HIV/AIDS-competent medical care, support groups, an adolescent-specific health program called HOTT, and dental services. They have two locations: one in Chelsea, Manhattan (212-271-7200) and one in the Bronx (718-215-1800). I’ve been to both and personally had really great experiences. Chelsea location has its own pharmacy. Additionally, they will keep seeing you even if you can’t pay your medical bills because they are more interested in helping people than making money (last year, they had $4M in un-repaid debt).
IHI Therapy — Offers TGNC-affirming mental healthcare services. Address and contact info available on their site.
Rainbow Health — Community program operated by Sherbourne Health that offers a range of gender-affirming services and trans-competent care. Sherbourne Health offers inclusive health services dedicated to helping people who may have been under-served by conventional healthcare. Their Trans Health Knowledge Base answers FAQs about TGNC healthcare. Address and contact info available on their site.
Salt Lake City, UT
Rebirth OB/GYN: Gender Center — Dr. Rixt Luikinaar, MD specializes in transgender health and offers services to support TGNC folx through both social and medical transition (e.g. voice coaching, makeup classes, HRT, etc.) Though Utah does not currently offer legal protections for transgender people seeking healthcare, TGNC folx are explicitly covered under Gender Center's non-discrimination policy. Address and contact info available on their site.
Whitman Walker Health — Aim to provide safe, respectful, and affirming care for TGNC patients. Offers both medical and behavioral health services. Address and contact info available on their site.
One Medical — Committed to providing "judgment-free care" and improving the healthcare experiences of trans and gender non-conforming people. Has locations in NYC, Atlanta, Boston, Chicago, Los Angeles, New York, Orange County (CA), Phoenix, Portland (OR), San Diego, Seattle, SF Bay Area, and Washington D.C. Addresses and contact info available on their site.
Planned Parenthood — Though PP has locations in 32 states + Washington D.C., only some locations offer HRT. If you'd like to know if locations in your city offer this service, I encourage you to call. PP states a commitment to serving the needs of their community, so if your local center does not offer HRT, I encourage you to let them know that they should (if and only if you feel both empowered and safe to do so). Addresses and contact info available on their site.
Legal & Financial
Transgender Law Center (TLC) — legal resources for trans and gender non-conforming people.
Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund (TLDEF) — legal resources for trans and gender non-conforming people. Their Name Change Project helps connect low-income TGNC folx seeking a legal name change with pro-bono lawyers (only available in certain states).
Bee's Fund Microgrants at Stonewall Foundation — Offer grants between $25-$650 to help LBTQ women and GNC folx who have lost family support due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. Eligible expenses include (but are not limited to) GED tutoring, work uniforms, college application fees, and name change fees.
For Loved Ones & Communities
PFLAG - Our Trans Loved Ones — Extremely thorough and frequently updated, this guide offers information and resources for families of TGNC people.
NCTE’s Families for Trans Equality — Helps teach families of trans people how to fight alongside us for transgender equality.
Communicating with Family and Friends about Your Child’s Gender — Resource guide for communicating with others about your child's gender.
Parenting a Transgender or Gender-Expansive Child — How to Protect Your Family Against False Allegations of Child Abuse — Collaborative guide by NCLR (National Center for Lesbian Rights), Gender Spectrum, NCTE (National Center for Transgender Rights), HRC (Human Rights Campaign), and GLAD (Legal Advocates and Defenders)
Questionable Questions about Gender Identity — What not to ask your TGNC loved one or community member.
Understanding Non-binary People — While this guidebook is technically designed for media, it also addresses common questions that many folks have when a friend or loved one comes out as non-binary.
Transgender Resources - GLAAD — Resources for TGNC folx as well as media folks working on transgender stories.
Doubly Victimized: Reporting on Transgender Victims of Crime - GLAAD — Best practices + 101 guide for journalists reporting on trans victims of crime.
"More Than A Number" Report - GLAAD — 201 guide that addresses a need to shift the media narrative about transgender homicides. This is a great reference for journalists who are specifically reporting on transgender murder victims.
Schools in Transition: A Guide for Supporting Transgender Students in K-12 Schools — National Educational Association in collaboration with NCLR, Gender Spectrum, HRC, and the ACLU
GLSEN – Supporting Trans and GNC Youth — Resource guide for K-12 students, families, and schools on supporting TGNC youth.
Trans Youth Equality — Youth resources for learning about being transgender.
LGBTQ Help and Support: Resources for Students — Resources for LGBTQ+ students. Includes a list of a few universities who have taken notable efforts towards LGBTQ+ inclusivity, scholarships for LGBTQ+ students, and resources for parents and families.
PFLAG — With nearly 400 chapters in cities around the US, PFLAG offers support groups for LGBTQ+ people and their families. Many chapters have both an LGBQ+ group and a TGNC (Transgender/Gender non-conforming) group. Their website also provides information on how to start a new chapter if there is not one accessible to you.
Gender Spectrum — Online groups for TGNC youth and adolescents and their families. Divided by age group (pre-teens 11-12, teens 13-19). Groups are sometimes centered around one topic, such as “Home for the Holidays,” or for one group of people, such as grandparents or fathers. Offer groups in English and Spanish.
I Am Jazz on TLC — Documents the life of transgender teen activist Jazz Jennings and her family.
Pose on FX — Drama about New York's underground ball culture during the AIDS crisis. Features the largest cast of trans actors in series regular roles. Seasons 1 and 2 are currently available on Netflix
Euphoria on HBO — Though the series is primarily centered around Rue (Zendaya) and her struggle with mental illness and addiction, transgender actress Hunter Schafer brings an extremely vulnerable and authentic trans storyline through her character, Jules.
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